Why it Still Happens
I get questions many times about veteran suicide and why this occurs. This topic has been brought to life for years now. Transitioning from military to civilian life can be jarring for many veterans, leading to a profound disillusionment. In the military, there is a strong, ingrained culture of camaraderie and mutual support, where soldiers regularly check on one another, fostering a sense of belonging and purpose. However, upon returning to civilian life, veterans often find themselves in an environment that feels starkly different and isolating. I found myself in this situation when I retired from the Army. I felt lost. The lack of a structured, supportive network like that found in the military can leave veterans feeling adrift and disconnected, intensifying their sense of alienation from the society they once protected.
This cultural disparity between military and civilian life can create a chasm that is difficult for many veterans to bridge. The military's responsibilities are clear, values are shared, and the mission is paramount. In the Army, I got promoted through an organization and went to schools that expanded my knowledge of the organization I was leading. Conversely, civilian life operates under a different set of values and priorities, which can be bewildering and frustrating for veterans who are used to a more structured and mission-focused existence. This disconnection can lead to a deep sense of disillusionment as veterans struggle to reconcile their military identity with their new civilian roles.
Further complicating this transition are the drastic changes in the nature of work and status that many veterans experience. Veterans who once commanded respect and operated advanced military equipment like tanks or helicopters might find themselves in civilian jobs that feel mundane and undervalued, such as working at Wall Mart or other entry-level positions. This stark contrast can exacerbate feelings of frustration and worthlessness, as the skills and experiences gained in the military do not always translate seamlessly into the civilian job market. The loss of a meaningful role and the associated status can contribute to a veteran's sense of disorientation and despair.
In addition to the cultural and professional challenges, many veterans grapple with personal battles that further complicate their return to civilian life. The trauma of combat and the psychological scars of war can haunt veterans long after they leave the battlefield. Additionally, they often face significant hurdles in accessing the healthcare and support services they need. The longing for the close-knit bonds formed with their military comrades adds to their sense of isolation, as these relationships are difficult to replicate in civilian life. I will many times reach out to other veterans who want to talk and find themselves in the same situation as myself. All these factors—cultural dislocation, professional disenchantment, trauma, and the struggle to find adequate care—create a perfect storm that can push veterans towards despair and, tragically, suicide.
I feel supporting the veteran as best as you can, either with a purpose in his/her job or life, will be of assistance. I do not have the golden answer to cure suicide, but reaching out and helping the veteran in their transition is something we can all do. Call them on the phone and say, "hi".
FOR HELP: Veteran Suicide Prevention
Jason Pike
Veteran / Author, A Soldier Against All Odds
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